"Ishq mein chup rehkar bhi nazro se baat hoti hai
Ab to khwabo mein tumse roz mulaqat hoti hai
Kisi din tum bhi dekhoge ye nazara haseen
Muhabbat bhare dilo ki baat kuch khash hoti hai
Phir na yaad aayenge ye gile shikwe kabhi tumko
Jab jaan jaaoge ki pyar mein kya baat hoti hai
Kabhi to hoga ahsaas tumhe meri chahto ka
muhabbat ke ghaam mein bin sawan barsat hoti hai"
Mind,Brain controls us and our emotions.Their are many emotion which we show everyday and night. But, sometimes their comes a situation when we run out of our emotions at the same time we have plenty within us Hidden some where inside us overwhelmed by the occasion or at some juncture.The same happens to me and i guess with you also.
Let's take one type of affection that is love. when you fall in love it is a temporary madness or excitement. you and your partner keep awake for the whole night in this excitement .But, after sometime it subsides. when it subsides , you start looking for other options then you have to make a decision. you have to work out that whether your relationship/engagement have become so tight that you cannot live apart only death can separate you from each other.Love is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day.For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away.
Love has many forms. It can be in the form of mother loving her son & daughter,brother & sister , father & son, daughter and foremost important girlfriend & boyfriend . The rest you define by yourself. In these relationship also, their comes a point which stops you from saying "I love you or I care for you so much that nobody can ever care for you". It does happened to me many times, might be with you also.Their can be two things behind this: You might fear from losing her/him or you might be overrun by the situation you are put in. The moment this thought of losing her comes in your mind you stop where ever you are.After then you are not able gather courage to say "I Like you" and as a result you lose her. Can, anyone love her/him more than this. The answer will be user dependent.
A father, many times fails to say his son, that i care for you or rather he never does. But, you are in difficulty you might have seen all the times and that your father is always with you holding your hand.
It feels sad sometimes when i came to hear that son murdered his father,a boy/girl ditches the boyfriend/girlfriend.So,do we are losing the value of words like love,affection etc? Also, it feels sad that in the present generation,that is mine, yours, can not keep their promise which we make with our partners. I mean does, it take a rocket science to maintain that thing. I guess not,not at all. I am not here comparing the old generation with the new one. But actually i am comparing the way of thinking we have. Their is something in this world bind us with the family ,society ,with partners or future partners is that, the trust,love we have for each other . The moment these things are gone, we quarrel ,fight and dispute arises and then all the things are destroyed. Their is saying "In relationship if a knot is put then it cann't be healed no matter how hard you try".
In relationship, we always try to customize the other one. we always think that my partner will be of this type or the other. So, if we have, to do the customization then why cann't we love machine because they are best possible customization we can ever have. Most of the time, customization always take place after when we commit to each other that we are engaged with the other. So cannot we love the person as it is.Do we require such things for a relationship to survive. i guess not. It is the love , understanding, respect which stir your boat to it's destination.
Being, in relationship can be encouragement to do something for the other. It is one of the most beautiful thing which can happen to you.So live it, cherish it, spend it more.
"Tumhare jism ki khushboo gulon se aati hai,
Khabar tumhari bhi ab dusron se aati hai.
Hami aakele nahi jaagte hain raaton me,
Use bhi nind badi muskilon se aati hai.
Hamari aankh ko maila to kardiya hai magar,
Mohabbaton me chamak aansuon se aati hai."
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Monday, July 18, 2011
Corruption and We
"One day, i was coming back from the office. Their was a huge traffic on the road. All the roads
were blocked. A single vehicle was not able to move from one place to another. It was raining in powai and you might me knowing how it rains over here in mumbai. if it starts then it continues to rain after an after. The cause for the traffic jam was that a one gentleman was on the wrong side of the road. By looking at him i found, that he was a very educated person and he was speaking quiet a fast English and he had a Audi car(one of mine favourite) . Their was a loud buzz, all the people were busy in giving horns. All the environment was full of the same pathetic sound coming out of their cars. Suddenly, a very old person(quiet a bit old i guess above 60 he will be) came out of his car and started acting like a traffic police, started waving his hand in air, showing the way to others."
I stood their for hardly 10 mins and guess what, their was no more traffic on the road.
I don't know why that very person has acted in this way but i know one thing if i am responsible person and know what i am doing then i can Definitely bring some change in myself and the society also.
Everyday, i receieve a lot of mails against corruption and lokpal bill.Support this and support that. I don't underestimate the fasting, neither the campaign going on, for the strong lokpal bill. But, do we know that, are we sure that we need this at all. Their are various authorities in India like CAG, Judiciary, PAC, etc mainly for checking the corruption in the system.
what ever we do , we protest it like hell but if the person sitting at the TOP doesn't act correctly then we are in the trouble people. we are just creating the parallel authority like government with unlimited power and hell lot of corruption in it. And, if at all he tried to function properly also then he can be impeached by the people or the MP's , MLA's sitting in parliament. So, do we have any solution to this cancer. Yes, we have in fact their are many solutions to this problem.
One might be that we the so called a bunch of Indian can change our mentality to work in accordance with the law and tried not to act like a driver of the car causes the problem and chaos condition on road.
It can also be we change the structure of existing authorities like selection of CAG head,.
It can also be making the CBI independent and impowering it so that it can function properly without coming under any pressure, it can be directly be brought under the president of india.
Honestly speaking, the problem starts with us and it persists. If Me,Myself will raise this question in urban places that how many people go and cast their vote. i can easily found that half of the janta not going to cast their vote. but, whereas, if i go to a village to ask the same question around 90% would have given their vote and if you go the senses then most of the people living in indian villages are not even literate. So, were is the flaw,it's within us. Actually,we allow others to choose the government for us. When it comes to setting the liability of any other then jump into the crowd to throw the stones on others.
Can,We, the Indian can change. If we can then India can Change Otherwise not because we comprises india either we can make or destroy it . it is in our hand and it will in our hands.
It's not a blame game But a responsibility that we have to take to make it a better place to live.
were blocked. A single vehicle was not able to move from one place to another. It was raining in powai and you might me knowing how it rains over here in mumbai. if it starts then it continues to rain after an after. The cause for the traffic jam was that a one gentleman was on the wrong side of the road. By looking at him i found, that he was a very educated person and he was speaking quiet a fast English and he had a Audi car(one of mine favourite) . Their was a loud buzz, all the people were busy in giving horns. All the environment was full of the same pathetic sound coming out of their cars. Suddenly, a very old person(quiet a bit old i guess above 60 he will be) came out of his car and started acting like a traffic police, started waving his hand in air, showing the way to others."
I stood their for hardly 10 mins and guess what, their was no more traffic on the road.
I don't know why that very person has acted in this way but i know one thing if i am responsible person and know what i am doing then i can Definitely bring some change in myself and the society also.
Everyday, i receieve a lot of mails against corruption and lokpal bill.Support this and support that. I don't underestimate the fasting, neither the campaign going on, for the strong lokpal bill. But, do we know that, are we sure that we need this at all. Their are various authorities in India like CAG, Judiciary, PAC, etc mainly for checking the corruption in the system.
what ever we do , we protest it like hell but if the person sitting at the TOP doesn't act correctly then we are in the trouble people. we are just creating the parallel authority like government with unlimited power and hell lot of corruption in it. And, if at all he tried to function properly also then he can be impeached by the people or the MP's , MLA's sitting in parliament. So, do we have any solution to this cancer. Yes, we have in fact their are many solutions to this problem.
One might be that we the so called a bunch of Indian can change our mentality to work in accordance with the law and tried not to act like a driver of the car causes the problem and chaos condition on road.
It can also be we change the structure of existing authorities like selection of CAG head,.
It can also be making the CBI independent and impowering it so that it can function properly without coming under any pressure, it can be directly be brought under the president of india.
Honestly speaking, the problem starts with us and it persists. If Me,Myself will raise this question in urban places that how many people go and cast their vote. i can easily found that half of the janta not going to cast their vote. but, whereas, if i go to a village to ask the same question around 90% would have given their vote and if you go the senses then most of the people living in indian villages are not even literate. So, were is the flaw,it's within us. Actually,we allow others to choose the government for us. When it comes to setting the liability of any other then jump into the crowd to throw the stones on others.
Can,We, the Indian can change. If we can then India can Change Otherwise not because we comprises india either we can make or destroy it . it is in our hand and it will in our hands.
It's not a blame game But a responsibility that we have to take to make it a better place to live.
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